The question does not turn into society where men and women meet, that's about a dance cafe! There, the women expect them to be addressed by the men.
Many years ago, I was single and went to the mousetrap to find a woman. I was not successful there. When I left the dancing scales, about 10 women were spalier at the exit. They were consistently overweight by at least 10 kilos whose clothes tensed over the legacy. They waited for one of the men.