My girlfriend likes it if you (s) in sex dominant, speak if you push me away, that if I want to continue, simply continue because she finds it When the man takes himself what he wants without asking.
Or she would like it as I would like it.
She would express clearer if she really does not want something really, she says.
I do not want her Hurt or hurt her - am I too soft? Do I have too little self-confidence?
Or is the mistake with her because she does not say "Take me as you want" ??
How do I manage to bring this dominance convincingly?
Me Find that dominant sex (BDSM), etc. never arises from tender kissing - sonThe first you build extremely sexual tension.
Would be glad about tips and advice.
I do not want to hurt her or hurt her - I'm too soft? Do I have too little self-confidence?
What has to be careful or self-confident to do?
Or is the mistake with her because she does not say "Take me how you want" ??
What a mistake? This is about communication to borders and the heritaments to this. That's why finding out what makes fun. That may take a while.
Basic question, do you want to have a dominant role at all? Where do you feel well, do not?
Say if you push me away, that if I want to go on, simply continue because she finds it, if the man takes what he wants without asking.
Rape Play . Definitely eggN Safe Word or talk about the amp system or something like that. She has to have the opportunity "seriously, I do not want to communicate. That can otherwise go wrong. That also gives you the security, to know when you can ignore your defense, maybe, too, and when not. The idea, however, is that you have fun to push them into a supposed role. Does it do that?
but you first build extremely sexual tension.
You have an approach. The idea is that you make the game within the limits set by it.
Just get a safe word and then she can say that if she does not like something or it's too far. Then you realize yes when you should stop. Let's not think so bad as she wants. But do not think that you hurt her otherwise.
You must come up with a "Safeword" ... if she says this word, take you back ... Soetwas What Nothing at all With sex, like "Bärchenwurst" or similar.
As I said, she will tell you if it is uncomfortable / it hurts, trust yourself;)
You should only do what you both want ... but you can try it as long as you do not mind. She knows what she wants