Example Person = Man
What does that mean when a person does not want to find a solution in a dispute, no longer talks about a dispute, no longer talks even if you talk something asks and if you can do it fresh after the dispute the person to bring to talking only together to find a solution to find the person directly dissells and only anger felt, although you have no fault or have a lot of guilt and it only clarified I do not want to consider feeling about others at the moment and only sees black.
Also poses to reduce his problems so and degrade stress for hours.
And the person is doing the next day as if there was nothing and however life and it's trying to forget.
What's that? Is that something with psyche or did you experience bad experience in childhood and have no good education?
That you write about a man, I thought the same! : -)
Many men can not handle well with conflicts. Often, when women are ready to talk about a conflict, the adrenaline is still beaming in them. (It takes longer, until it is repeated in men.) So: Men often need longer than women until they can talk normal again.
The other one is, if you can then speak normally again, then you must - if you want to live in a relationship - also learn how to behave for conflicts, (take responsibility, your own view - in Rest - explaining, express wishes, make suggestions ....) But unfortunately many have not learned many and then do not have to tediously- learn from your partners.
Whether that comes from childhood or psyche, I do not really care. It's about how I behave cooperative and constructive in a partnership.
What does that mean when a person does not want to find a solution for a trial, if it does not suit her, do not try to remove in a dispute, no longer talks even if you Something asks
That means that she does not feel like discussing.
If you can do it fresh after the dispute the person to bring to talking only together to find a solution to find the person directly dissolved and only anger felt, although you have no fault
Do not have a fault? That sees the person in questionJust different.
No consideration of feelings of others takes in the moment
that means one should take more consideration of the feeling of the other and should not be permanently pressing, if that shows clearly that he does not want to discuss Justify or do not want to explain.
Nothing. This is just one of the numerous possibilities (and certainly not the worst) to subscribe to a conflict.
And did not have a good education?
There is no good education that does not accept this form of conflict design and thus others.
Then you're just a person who comes with conflictscan bypass.
Wherein the dodging for solution tests, associated with rage and insults are already highly indicating the tableability to the guidance of a relationship, as well as the inability to have other opinions apply, or to defend his own opinion with arguments.
Dodge in the form of ...
"When a dispute simply tries to discourage"
"no longer talks even if you ask something"
"also slopes to reduce his problems so and to reduce stress hours"
... nothing but "a flight" before reality. In every respect, there are quarrels that are easy to solve ... you just have to talk to each other and that does not seem to be. Does not look like a functioning relationship, because there you solve problems and together in the interest of harmonious coexistence. Your real problem So: You will learn to live with it, or slowly have to think about the termination of this relationship, because talking does not seem to be no longer with him. All the best and Greetings from Berlin Who in case of problems Angelica There are moments in which a man have his peace wants and does not want to be fully tossed. Maybe the one thing notes that at that moment there is no sense to discuss with you because you're snapped up anyway and did not listen at all anyway. In such situations, it is sometimes better to keep away, biS your days are over. Cedric Can all mean